To make a move and connect – that is the ultimate goal of all Flirt Divas. And really it's not rocket science; it's just a matter of smiling and maintaining eye- contact and wondering up for a chat.
Tell him you like his shirt, shoes, hair – anything - just make contact. You'll be well prepped for making an approach once you've nailed the 6-Steps.
Step 1. Emotional Admin
Step 1 is devoted to emotional admin. It's all about building foundations and getting your emotional tool-box in order. Sorting out all the W's: the where's, why's and wherefores. Looking at where you're at; what you want and how you're going to get it.
It's super important to do your emotional housekeeping and get your house in order before you go out there to make a killing in flirt land. Often we have to do this in order to unearth our flirt-mojos. So to summarise Step 1. Have a clean head space from which to start from.
Step 2. The Flirtebrities – the best and worst of the celebrity Flirtebrities
Look at the Best & Worst Celebrity flirtstars. How do the superstars do it? Take your cues from strong, amazing successful women, women who can be your personal role models. What do they do? How do they do it? It's all about watching, observing and being inspired by the women you admire.
Pay attention to the way they conduct themselves socially, professionally and romantically. Who do you think the worlds hottest flirts are? What do they do that you can emulate? Watch. Study. Pay attention!
Step 3. Action Diva
Make this the year to unleash your adventurous side. Focus on getting in touch with the things that stimulate you, excite you, exhilarate you and generally remind you that you're alive and kicking!
That means getting out of your comfort zone, a good start is with finding your Inner Kid and doing those things you were once so passionate about. They rocked your world then and they can rock your world now!
Step 4. Glam Diva
Get in touch with your inner glamazon and ladies prepare your stations! The Flirt Diva must be prepared for any occasion. Ready to look gorgeous at the drop of a hat. You'll be waxed, moisturised, tweezed, exfoliated and groomed within an inch of your life.
Get ready to be gorgeous girl! That inner confidence boost is the backbone when it comes to holding your own in any social situation.
Step 5. Social Diva
So you've done your emotional admin, you've re-ignited your action diva, you've got yourself looking gorgeous and you're ready to hit the town, but what do you say…? There is an art to knowing what to say and when to say it.
Just as there is having the perfect ice-breaker to propel a conversation and get it flying. Make it your business to thrill and entice everyone and anyone with your conversation. Study the art of what to say in any given situation. Practice your conversation on anyone and everyone; go on pseudo dates to perfect the art.
Step 6. Vamp Diva!
So now you're ready to unleash your inner vamp and find your mojo. OK, first things first: when looking for examples of how to flirt, look for the universally recognised gestures – they're the ones the guy's are going to be looking out for. And once you've got them down pat, use them in hi-repetition flirting combination.
This is absolutely foolproof when it comes to letting men know that “Hello, yes you are interested in more than just coffee thanks!” Smoulder with sass and sex appeal.
Source: http://www.metro.co.uk